How do I get people to stop thinking im gothic and to see me for me?

yea imma lil on the weird size i think. everyone thinks imma goth and i dont really have that many friends. I dont wanna be popular but i wanna be able to socialize with everyone and b4 anyone asks no im not goth. i just wanna stop being judged. so if anyonee could hlp me w/ tht i'd rlly appreciate it.