Is your husband the same?

Mine used to be that way before we got married. Then I told him that if he wanted to stay in the relationship, then he better help me out more because I'm not his maid and I'm not his mother. I told him that he needs to care about how he lives. Sounds like your hubby is a bit selfish. I don't care how many hours he works, he should at least help out. Even if it's just one thing. That one thing is enough to be greatly appreciated, especially after puting in long hours the way you both do. Sit him down and let him know how you feel. If he doesn't care to help you after that then deprive him of the only thing he seems to remember ;)